I ran into this comment yesterday in a devotional, and feel like it goes along perfectly with what I was feeling. It's from Job 23:10, when Job is struggling he says "When I'm tried, I shall come forth as gold" And then the author says in that we should be reminded that 1) It takes fire to produce gold. 2) Only the refiner knows the degree of heat and amount of time required. 3) To rush the process is to produce something of lesser value.
So in the light of my frustration with trust, patience and control; I think this is a great way to think about it. I need to continue to have patience in order to wait and let God take care of His creation.